3 Things to Remember about Advice from Friends during Divorce

Who did you choose to confide in first as you started the divorce process? Often times, it’s those closest to us- friends or family members whom we turn to right away with questions about what we should do, who to consult with and what steps to take first. Although it’s beneficial to start building a […]

Who Likes your Facebook Updates the Most? Divorce Lawyers!

Did you post an update about yourself or share a photo on Facebook today? If you are currently separated or going through a divorce you could be putting your future at risk. At a time when you are in over your head with all the confusion, pain, fear and anger that come along with the […]

Keep or Sell your Home during Divorce? 5 Questions to Ask

The decision to keep or sell the family home during divorce can become an emotional power struggle and an ongoing source of conflicts and negotiations between a husband, wife and their mediator or attorneys during the long path through divorce. Since divorce causes many disruptions to all the parts of a person’s life, it’s not […]

Deciding to Divorce: Emotional Tug-of-War

Are you or someone you know, contemplating the thought of whether and when to file for divorce? Since divorce cuts across all the parts of a person’s life, most people experience a lot of doubts about what to do and second-guess any of the decisions they do make. In her book, “Contemplating Divorce” Divorce Expert […]

Getting Stronger through Divorce

Although I have read many, many books about how to survive divorce, there is one in particular I often turn to over and over again. Therapist and Divorce Coach Susan Pease Gadoua’s book, “Stronger Day by Day” is that small book of wisdom that reaches out to me like a starfish when I’m struggling to […]

Deciding to Divorce or Not

Are you or someone you know considering separation or divorce? When facing such a watershed decision like this, it is common to go back and forth about the pros and cons, positives and negatives, the good, the bad and the ugly! When the two possible decisions that run in place over and over again inside […]

Divorce Court: Take 2 Tylenol and watch this!

  If you are experiencing going through divorce for the first time, you may not know what to expect when your thoughts turn to going to court. In this video, divorcing couple Jill and Kevin are surrounded by bailiffs, the judge, attorneys and others who all provide some comic relief compared to what  divorce court […]

How to Save More Money During Divorce

  Are you or someone you know at the start of Separation or Divorce? The decisions that you make right now are critical when it comes to getting the outcome you deserve. If you are considering getting a divorce but not sure where to start, find out here why getting the guidance and support you […]

Is Your Divorce on Life Support?

Many women and men ask me, “Why is my divorce taking so long?” They also want to know, “What can I do to help things go more smoothly and cost less money?” I usually find that there are 3 Key Reasons Why you are Stuck in a Divorce that is not moving forward.   1. […]

3 Ways to Communicate with a Difficult Ex

Does your stomach churn at the thought of having to communicate with your ex?  Would you rather clean out a 45 gallon fish tank than contact your ex about the kids’ holiday schedule? Many former spouses continue to experience significant difficulties in the ways that they communicate with each other which spark ongoing wildfires when […]